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Comment on A Look At Emotional, Verbal, and Physical Abuse In Relationships by Chris

Chris — Sat, 12 May 2012 17:25:30 +0000

My husband has always controlled me. We’ve been married for 20 years. The sad thing is it took me all these years to realize it. We have 4 children together, two over 18. Last summer for the first time he hit me. A few weeks later I left for six months, but came back for the kids. Not a good idea! Many women stay because they have no where to go. But enough is enough. I feel that he is a ticking time bomb.

Comment on Having Trust Issues? Learn How to Build Trust In A Relationship by my relationship

my relationship — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 03:45:44 +0000

this article makes perfect sense.
thank you so much for sharing your story i really admire it so much.

Comment on Common Relationship Problems and Solutions by Remy Kelvin

Remy Kelvin — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 15:10:50 +0000

For me, structuring any aspect of my life around the hope that I will be in a serious relationship someday seems self-defeating. Maybe that’s because I believe that since that may never happen, my best bet is to try to make my life as happy and comfortable as possible for how it is now. And if things change and there’s a need to, I can always change my circumstances. I have friends who have to some extent put their lives on hold, waiting for that perfect partner, and I think that’s a mistake.
I’ve been dating a man for more than a year and a half. We enjoy each other’s company, but are not in love and live totally separate lives, mostly because that’s what he wants. I must admit that sometimes I wish it were more, but unless I meet someone who is capable of more, I’m going to try my best to enjoy what I have — and my freedom.

Comment on Signs Your Spouse Is Having An Affair by end spouse's affair

end spouse's affair — Tue, 03 Apr 2012 05:16:34 +0000

Lot of people develop a lot of animosity on the partner because of the affair. And this is difficult to overcome when ignored. Managing our own thoughts is really critical and learning the root cause that pushed the spouse or the partner to have the affair should be known. Also this gives a better understanding of the problem.
Have a good day.
thanks!
Violette

Comment on 5 Ways to Overcome Insecurity In Your Relationship by Kay

Kay — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:29:02 +0000

A lot of insecurity in a current relationship comes from memories of past relationships that went wrong. It is so important to deal with past issues and make sure that there is no “spillage” into a new relationship. But yes, this can run a relationship into the ground.

Comment on 50 Common Signs of a Cheater by Jason Fry

Jason Fry — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 17:55:28 +0000

Cheating is something that a lot of couple are dealing with these days. It seems with things like facebook and other social media networks that people are more connected than ever. The tips you list for things to watch for are dead on. There are certainly warning signs you can spot when you are dealing with infidelity, so use them to help you identify when things might be taking a turn for the worse. Obviously, some are more apparent than others. For example, if you come across the lipstick on the collar or cheeks then you know something is seriously wrong. The key thing is to be observant and aware. Whatever you do do not accuse until you are very sure there is cheating going on.

Great post, sure gives some people some quality advice as to what to look for when spotting a cheater.

Comment on 5 Ways to Overcome Insecurity In Your Relationship by Martin Cooney

Martin Cooney — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 08:55:31 +0000

Good list of 5 of the best things to concentrate on in getting a relationship back on track.

I know myself that when my first marriage broke up, I took a good long look at my behaviour and decided on giving myself some relationship advice before getting into any new partnerships.

What were the relationship tips? Well, very much these same 5 tips actually. The big few were being totally honest as well as transparent were first. I made a pact with myself to never ever tell any white lies or diversions to anyone – that’s sometimes challenging to do but it’s worth it.

Trust has always been high on my list of values but I strengthened my committment to it anyway.

And self confidence was needed too. No-one really wants to be with someone who doesn’t first believe in themselves.

Good post and thanks

Comment on Building a Stronger Relationship Through Friendship by Dmar

Dmar — Thu, 22 Mar 2012 08:59:52 +0000

Many times, because of the routine we forget the friendship with your partner.
Very good advice. I keep the blog to bookmarks.

Thank you!

Comment on Contact by Drlove

Drlove — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 18:34:14 +0000

Your thought on friendship as a tool for healthy relationship is very right. I strongly believe that two people should even be friends for as period as nothin less than one and half year before going into love relationship. With this, the two couples will always see each other as true friends. Couples like this last longer.

Comment on Deciding Whether to Stay or Go? – A Technique From a Movie Might Help You Decide by Meg

Meg — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 23:27:24 +0000

Did you ever get any advice? Or do you have any advice for me? I am in the same situation!