As you know, cheating is one of the main problems in relationships and marriages. There are many cheaters out there. The bad thing about it is that some cheaters are actually getting away with it.
One of the reasons is because the other partner doesn’t suspect anything. You don’t want to be one of those people in a relationship that doesn’t know what is going on right under their nose.
So, here are 50 common signs of a cheater to help you get a little idea of suspicious behaviors that can pinpoint cheating.
- Works late alot.
- Deletes text messages and cell phone history a lot.
- Keeps their cell phone with them at all times.
- Receives calls at weird hours, usually at night.
- Doesn’t like you to go through their phone.
- Doesn’t feel comfortable around you all of a sudden.
- Intimacy increases.
- Intimacy decreases.
- Loss of affection.
- Washes their own laundry sometimes.
- Comes home smelling like perfume.
- Comes home with lip stick on their clothes.
- Comes home and goes straight to the shower.
- Has a change of attitude.
- Pays more attention to their appearance.
- Picks up new hobbies.
- Has new friends you are unaware of.
- Picks fights for no apparent reason.
- Doesn’t come that much anymore.
- Increase of business trips.
- Won’t allow you access to their emails.
- Stays up on the computer late at night while you are sleep.
- Friends starts to act strange….when they know something.
- Starts acting more nicer towards you all of a sudden.
- Dresses up to go the grocery store…(example)
- Spends longer than usual to run an errand.
- Starts to criticize you more.
- Unusual numbers with long duration showing up on phone bill.
- Increased atm withdrawals.
- Purchases on statement that were made but not received by you or can’t explain.
- Pays less attention to household and family matters.
- On the go all the time.
- Makes lots of excuses for not spending time with you.
- Catches them not wearing their wedding ring, engagement ring…etc
- Takes calls in private.
- Receive a lot of calls where the caller hangs up when you answer.
- You find condoms when both of you have unprotected “you know what”.
- Doesn’t answer your calls all of a sudden.
- Lots of canceled dates, those of which were their fault and where they didn’t show up.
- Doesn’t like when you show up unannounced.
- Their place of residence has belongings their of the opposite sex that are not yours such as clothing, towels, etc.
- Wants to try new things in the bedroom.
- Says they need space.
- Buys you gifts all of a sudden or at random, lots of them at that. GUILT
- Always points out the negative things in the relationship or marriage.
- Communication dies down. Very little interaction between the two of you.
- Overacts and gets defensive over little things and questions that shouldn’t be taken that serious.
- Unexplained scratches and bruises on their neck or back area. Hickeys.
- Strange, unusual, weird, random, out of character behavior.
- Your own gut feeling.
Now don’t think just because you notice 1 or 2 of the signs mentioned above that your partner is cheating. There could be legit reasons for them.
All you need to do is watch your partner and note down what’s going on, when it’s going on, and put your private eye investigations skills to the test. When cheating is occurring, you might notice 5-10 of the above signs happening on a daily basis.
The more signs you notice, the higher the chance they are cheating. Eventually, everything will unfold right before your eyes with patience, observation, and a little detective skills.
If you are indeed noticing a lot of the above signs, then I recommend you read the following article: 3 Necessary Steps to Catch a Cheater
Cheating is something that a lot of couple are dealing with these days. It seems with things like facebook and other social media networks that people are more connected than ever. The tips you list for things to watch for are dead on. There are certainly warning signs you can spot when you are dealing with infidelity, so use them to help you identify when things might be taking a turn for the worse. Obviously, some are more apparent than others. For example, if you come across the lipstick on the collar or cheeks then you know something is seriously wrong. The key thing is to be observant and aware. Whatever you do do not accuse until you are very sure there is cheating going on.
Great post, sure gives some people some quality advice as to what to look for when spotting a cheater.
my boyfriend cheated on me what should i do… i dont know wat to do give me some advice.. out of 50 4 is have him… i love him very much but every time i see his cellphone i found out a new one… he cheated on me..
My husband started out with a few of the above signs. Then more and more started to happen. I knew in the beginning but didnt have proof. I even confronted him. Then I found his phone, and it all came out. It’s been hard, even thought I caught it in the begging before sex took place, but the girl will not leave me alone. Thats a whole new story. My husband kept him phone with him at all times. He didnt wan me to see him in the nude. Only had sex when he was drunk. started to dress nice. He would always pick a fight. Always making me feel bad about myself. Stopped taking me out places, not even to the grocery. He would get up before me hurry up get ready and tell me that he doesnt have time to wait on me. He wants to hurry up go to the store and get back. He started being very rude. Even though he isnt talking to the girl and he is trying, he got so use to being rude, he is slowly coming out of it. He doesnt put me down no more. He spends a lot more time with me then he has in a long time. We are having sex more and him not drinking. All that stuff has got better, but the girl said she will never leave us alone. She thinks that her and my husband will live happy ever after. She trys to come between us. Causes me and my husband fights. Im not aloud to ever bring her up. He can and thats ok. She can car chase me down flick me off. Cause trouble for me at work. Send me trouble some text messages, then goes to my husbands work and tells him that im doing it to her. I had to show my husband the detailed bill showing that it is her. I also started achieving my text messages from my phone when she sends them. She admitted to stocking and that she can alter text messages to make them look like anything she wants. Just really sick stuff. She was acusing me of stuff that is crazy. Myhusband didnt want to see the messages. He wanted to see who text who first. Then he was mad that I texted her back, I was defending myself. She has treaten to lie to get me in trouble with the law to try to get what she wants from my husband. Thats as much as I could get out of him. He will not stand up for me. wants me toleave it alone and she will go away. She already told me she wasnt. It hurts that my husband beleive her over me about the text. And her treatening me with him and she has also done that toward me and he doesnt stand up for me. I really dont know. I love him very much and he says he feels the same. I really hope so because I dont want to fight for nothing. This girl is phyco!! She has cut me off the roas phyco!!
I have noticed morethan 5 of these. But i really dont wanna think thats the truth. I understand that truth hurts but how do i go about dealing with that, now that i have a clue.